1) It is actually very liberating to unfriend people on Facebook. I try not to do it much, because I try not to add individuals that I don't know fairly well, but eventually I find that I'm not getting much out of our connection and I have to cut those ties. I also HATE advertising that I'm doing it, because it seems like such a "Look at me!" sort of statement. I know, I know, I'm blogging about it now. *sigh* It's only because I want to mention how great it is to finally let go of baggage that was hurting your heart. True friendship is more than just meaningless platitudes. Don't friend me on Facebook or accept my friendship on Facebook if you don't want to be friends with me in real life. Also, friendship is actions AND words. I don't care if we haven't seen each other for years, I can still feel loved and cared for by people in the way they treat me when they do get to see me and talk with me. I hope those people feel the same. However, there are some individuals that love to say they have all these friends, but never put those supposed feelings into action. I guess what really made me unfriend people this time was talking with a good guy friend in February. I was telling him what I felt about how a group of people was treating my husband and I. Specifically me, because well, EVERYONE loves my husband and I'm a lot tougher to like. I know this. I have accepted this. It doesn't always make it less painful, but it is something I've come to terms with about myself. Anyhow, I was telling him about all of the things that they had done, outwardly and covertly, whether it was intentional or not and he pretty much asked me why I was still friends with them. I couldn't answer that coherently. It stuck in my mind and my heart and I ruminated over it for weeks and months. After a recent conversation with one of the individuals I thought was a friend and subsequent actions after that conversation, I realized I really didn't know why I was still hanging on to something they didn't care about one way or the other. So, I let go. You know what's really funny, too. I unfriended this bunch a week ago and haven't heard a peep from them since. You will know your friends by their actions and well, now I know. It still hurts, don't get me wrong, but when it's time to let go and you finally find that courage, it is truly liberating.
|Pluto? Nope, the delicious dough!|
|Finished product! Yum!|
4) As some of you know, Rick's Dad passed away last May of 2014. His stepmother had to move into town from the farm, as she didn't care to live on her own in the middle of nowhere. When we helped move some of her things, Rick ended up inheriting an old game from the 70s & 80s called "The Farming Game". It's set up very similarly to Monopoly, but instead of buying properties, you purchase acreage for grain, hay, and orchards, as well as livestock, pasture land, and equipment. As you get to certain areas of the board, you enter harvest season for the different types of acreage. You then roll a die to determine how much income you netted off that harvest and what operating expenses you have to purchase are determined by drawing a card. It is a lot of fun. I had never heard of it before, but we played it the very next weekend with the kids. It entertained us for FOUR hours. Yep. 4! I've been itching to play it again. What are your favorite board games?
5) Finally to the end, sorry it took so long. I guess since I haven't posted in two months, I finally had a few interesting things to say! So, for number 5, I'm gonna do you a solid. Try this recipe soon. It's for zucchini brownies and it is GOOD. No milk. No eggs. Delicious! The batter can be dry, but the zucchini adds moisture. I have eaten several of them already! Mmmmm. Fudgy Zucchini Brownies (Egg, Nut & Lactose-Free) ENJOY!
Have a great week everyone!